Friday, April 13, 2007

I *hate* being a Virgo

Virgo

Observant, shrewd, critically inclined, judicious, intellectually inquiring, methodical and logical, studious and teachable.

But the outward lack of feeling may, in some individuals born under this sign, conceal too much emotion, to which they are afraid of giving way because they do not trust others, nor do they have confidence in themselves and their judgments. This is because they are conscious of certain shortcomings in themselves of worldliness, of practicality, of sophistication and of outgoingness. So they bring the art of self concealment to a high pitch, hiding their apprehensiveness about themselves and their often considerable sympathy with other people under a mantle of matter-of-factness and undemonstrative, quiet reserve.

Excellent eye for detail but they may be so meticulous that they neglect larger issues

Their self distrust is something they project on to other people

Their faults, as is usual with all zodiacal types, are the extremes of their virtues. Fastidious reticence and modesty become old-maidishness and persnicketiness; balanced criticism becomes carping and nagging; and concern for detail becomes overspecialization. Virgoans are liable to indecision in wider issues and this can become chronic, turning molehills of minor difficulties into Himalayas of crisis. Their prudence can become guile and their carefulness, turned in on themselves, can produce worriers and hypochondriacs.

They are such perfectionists that, if things go wrong, they are easily discouraged.
It's this last part that gives me the most trouble. That, combined with self-distrust is a nasty hit to the self-esteem. I wish I could read things like this and say "Zodiac signs are such a load of fortune-telling CRAP!'.... but in reality, I can't, because it really does say a lot about me and I really don't like it.

89 Comments:

  • I also hate being a virgo, and I am exactly what it explains, I wish I were pisces.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 9:50 PM  

  • woah.. im a virgo and i just searched the keywords "i hate being a virgo". what u wrote is exactly what i feel right now.

    and to the commenter before me.. i wish i were a pisces all the time..

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 9:08 PM  

  • i'm a libra..... and i HATE virgos!! Most of them.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 1:51 AM  

  • Hahaa, hey Libra:
    FUCK YOU. Maybe we don't like you either.
    Anyway, I have Sun and Moon in Virgo and I have to say that although many of the traits describe me, I have become very outgoing and extraverted. It may be due to my Gemini ascendent and having three planets in Leo. I think Virgos' biggest problem is overcoming their shyness. After that, we da best. ;]
    P.S. Libras are usually dirty hoebags. ;]

    By Anonymous Krista, at 10:49 PM  

  • im a libra girl it is so unfortionate that they cant see a good thing if it slaped them in the face.i fill so sorry for them but who needs them when their are so many wonderfull guys out there.i moved on fast no body is going to treat me that way the virgo way no way hosay.fuck virgos.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 11:50 PM  

  • I'm a Leo! So I trump you all.

    virgo and pisces are shite signs.

    Libra on the other hand is much better.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 4:55 AM  

  • I am a Pisces girl. My boyfriend is a Virgo. Ahhhhh...what can I say...I used to have eyes only for him. Now I often find myself day-dreaming about my Capricorn ex who was stable and reassuring, caring, needy but not possessive, serious but never uptight...or a possible relationship with cozy sexy warm romantic Taurus. WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM VIRGO??? Why do you keep letting me down? Why do you hurt me? WHY?!?!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 10:42 PM  

  • i'm a virgo male and hate the virgo traits, I feel that virgo, pisces and scorpio are signs that really suffer great amounts of pain, all due to what their minds are telling them.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 11:33 AM  

  • Hey! I'm a Virgo and can't stand Librans! But I hate being a Virgo, so I think you may have a point!

    By Anonymous Nitpick Galore, at 4:42 AM  

  • im a taurus and i hate virgos too!

    By Blogger Deirdra, at 3:06 PM  

  • i also hate being a virgo. :P stupid parents, having sex around xmas... but come on, we have good traits, right? ...what are they?

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 5:48 PM  

  • Never met a Virgo I liked, ever. This is from another libra.

    Just about the most closed-minded folks are found in Virgos.

    They are far from perfect and so many ways blind to their imperfects.

    A good advice for virgos out there. Keep your opinions to yourself.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 1:48 AM  

  • Don't judge someone because of thier sign. I'm a Virgo and I'm nothing like this although I do want things to be perfect all the time and if things don't turn out my way I just remind myself that hey nothing and nobodys perfect. I think your just dwelling on your negative parts of the Virgo sign and not looking on the positive like for one thing virgos well most are extremely beautiful and are very well in career and most the time become investigators police officers etc.
    Because us virgos are very smart;] oh and that libra girl is just a hater on us ha

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 4:04 PM  

  • I HATE HATE HATE ALL VIRGOS!!! Sorry but you self-centered shrewd arsholes have walked all over me for the last time! I always remain open to the idea of you and welcome Virgos into my life with disastrous results, never fail. I'm so done. Leo's and Scorpios I love you!

    Aquarius

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 12:31 AM  

  • I don't care...I still love the Virgo species. I don't mind pickiness, I'm pretty ocd myself. I'm a Capricorn btw........boring earth signs unite! :P

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 6:24 AM  

  • C'mon, it's not as bad as you think .
    Virgos, IMO, are kind people, and they care about people around them too .
    I'm a Sag, and i have a few Virgo friends . They can be over-critical sometimes (to me, at least), but i can understand that . That's just who they are .
    Just accept that you're a Virgo . Sometimes i hate being a Sag too, but there's nothing we could do about it .

    By Blogger Sanctuary, at 5:18 AM  

  • You wish you were a Pisces? I'm a Pisces and wish I were a Virgo. I wish I could be cold and think with my head and not my heart.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 3:35 PM  

  • I'm a virgo, and so is one of my bestest friends, we make eachother laugh until we shed tears but when its that one rare day where we have a petty fight, it later turns into something more. I hate that I look too into things, over analyze or whatever, it just sucks. You are so right about us being so perfect that a failure discourages us, soo true. And to the previous post saying "i'm a libra..... and i HATE virgos!! Most of them.", a lot of people in my life are libras and those people drives me insane and irritate me. Virgos nd Libras might not be compatible. Anyways, this a very accurate blog <3

    By Anonymous Lina, at 12:56 AM  

  • I hate being a Virgo too it suxs. Im the only Virgo in my family. I had many troubles making friends in the beginng of this year at my school. No wonder why they r loners. I wish i could be a Aquarius or a Sag.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 5:14 PM  

  • I am a Virgo. even though my chart is ruled by scorpio...my sun is in virgo so technically I am defined as a virgo.
    I am nothing like the typical descriptions of a virgo...
    I am to aware of how easy it is tu hurt people, for i am like this myself. I may put on a cold exterior because i despise myself, but i am not cold and i do not calculate my actions. I am the most impulsive person i know, i think, and i am very emotional...even unstable at times, but never in public.
    I hate being a virgo because i hate myself so much. i can't speak up and tell the people around me how i feel...if i was some other sign, like a leo or aries or something...maby i would be better at enjoying my life and the ones i love.

    I know some virgos who fit these "descriptions" but i think there is more to them than that. they are too easy to hurt, so they do it first...
    they are really tormented inside.
    that is what i think.
    I love all signs...but some people are corrupted.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 1:04 PM  

  • i'm a virgo with pisces rising. i think its funny when people talk shit about other signs cause i think that they be trapped in illusions xD. i have never really identified with virgo cause i am much more big picture oriented i day dream all the fucking time i am an emotional landslide. but i think virgos are awesome when they are in tune and trust the world they have an incredible inner light. im smart too and my mercury ruled side means my mind is aldways fucking running which seriously pisses me off sometimes isnt that weird to hate your own mind. libra you can suck my cock and you have before xD

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 8:07 AM  

  • im not a virgo (kidding)
    Im a VIRGO..and to all the virgo's who hated themselves just because they were born as virgo's. stop focusing on those traits its crazy. you have to live up your own life...and to all the haters..stop being shallow and focus on your own signs instead of ours..


    thank god im virgo:D

    By Anonymous full moon, at 2:29 PM  

  • Dude, dude, dude. Relax. Someone just isn't a Virgo. You have to consider Sun, Moon and Ascendant as well as Venus. I'm a Virgo/Libra cusp Sun, Sagg Moon, Sagg Asc and Leo Venus. So I am not a typical Virgo. Check out the rest of the planets first and take it easy. Jeez. LOL

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 12:36 PM  

  • Well I'm a Virgo not sure if I love it or hate guess I rally don't care... I am not a perfectionist at all!! I'm always scared of hurting peoples feelings so I keep my opinion to myself... I care what others think and put myself last to please everyone else I think the only trait that applies to me is I over analyse everything... and my brain never stops thinking I can make myself tired without ever moving....

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:06 AM  

  • I'm a Proud VIRGO. I love the fact that I am able to out think, manipulate, and persuade ANYONE. For instance fellow VIRGOS, have you ever seen the movie limitless? Where the guy takes the pill and his brain functions on higher capacitys..well us VIRGOS are naturally born with a over analyzing brain. You have to rest your super compiter as well as work it out like a muscle. I am a VIRGO and I can persuade anyone for what ever I want. I even talk out of tickets,women out of pantys. Use your ability to see the future VIRGOS and ALLWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT INSTINCT WHEN MAKING ANY DECISION THAT'S OUR AUTO PILOT PROCESSING EVERYTHING FOR US...VIRGO

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 12:33 AM  

  • Wow. You people have nothing better to do than to hate people based on their astrological sign. The fact that you guys believe so heavily in this is amusing and pathetic at the same time.

    How did I chance upon this website you say? Well I simply typed "being a Virgo" into the search engine and, intrigued by some of the results that popped up I said 'sure why not?'. Lo and behold I come upon a bunch of losers who hide behind Anonymous and post such hateful things, based upon an astrological sign. "HERPA DERP I WAS WRONGED BY A VIRGO SO I HATE ALL VIRGOS."

    Exactly how old are you people? I suggest you all grow up and learn not to judge people based on such stupidity because it'll bite you right back in the ass.

    By Anonymous Sabrina, at 1:06 AM  

  • @Krista:
    Well, maybe it's not your sign that should be blame.
    You are just simply born a slut.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:38 PM  

  • I'm attracted to this one Virgo and he's just soooo mean to me and cold... He's also sexually confused with no confidence... I used to like this other Virgo guy... Same EXACT thing... They're easy to hurt but they don't show it and will say anything to piss you off because truly they hurt inside... Aqua-sun Sag-Asc Moon conjunct Pluto in Scorpio.

    My words usually hurt more due to my vindictive Scorpio moon and blunt Sagittarius Asc. so it's usually a vicious circle of hurt that never ends -,-

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 4:45 AM  

  • I know right!!! Virgos are shit bags and wish they was a Libra. I don't sweat them though, who wants to be a self pitying loser like Virgo, Not Me!

    By Anonymous Not one to mess with, at 5:45 AM  

  • People dot like Virgos because they're "narrow minded, judgmental, cold and discriminatory? I'm seeing much of this in the comments of some non-virgoans. If Virgos are like this because of a zodiac sign, then what's these people's excuses. Not exactly making they're own sign look very good.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 6:00 PM  

  • If some people don't believe in Astrology why are they on this blog? My experience (quite a bit) with Virgo men in particular is that they are just miserable, brooding people for no apparent reason. Ask them why they seem to hate the entire world and they can never give a legitimate reason. Baffling! It's almost like they are cursed this way. Also if things are going well with them they seem to want to sabotage their good fortune. Very self destructive. I have never seen these traits exhibited by any other sign to the extreme that Virgo seems have them. I can't help but to have pity for them.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 8:44 PM  

  • All i have to say is WOW people are so full of themself . How in the hell is some damn webite (that means shhh...) gonna tell me how the hell i act? This is not real! The only person who knows how the hell i act is my MOTHER ! So get a hold of your self before u do something thats not you and might regret it later on.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 11:07 AM  

  • he lets you down cuz that's what your worth. he knows you want a taurus.and he don't like you that much. virgos would never let down a real thing

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 3:53 AM  

  • Virgos are nothing more than piece of poop - all bloody cold blooded NARCISSISTS . Lol .They are indeed lame and they have proved it by creating this blog. Why on Earth anyone would hate being who they are. lol. Fire signs are far better than them as Lovers & partners.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 6:43 AM  

  • Hey - guys - this is a totally stupid way to spend an otherwise potentially wonderful evening

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 8:28 PM  

  • VIRGO - THE CENSOR

    When Virgo falls in love it is purely for sex.The lover must be able to satisfy Virgo's considerable sexual needs.Each new image arouses sexual desire,but so long as you can remain sexually attractive to Virgo,you will retain his love.The slower you are in yielding your gifts,the longer you can keep the affair alive.Nothing is more unattractive to him than easy surrender,which stamps you as cheap and worthless.Virgo can be either chaste or promiscuous,one extreme or the other.There are many spinsters,one-man women,and confirmed bachelors in this sign,but there are also the chasers who frequent goes to bars or pickup joints in the search of a one-night stand.This type can be quite degenerate in his sexual appetites.Despite this, Virgo ranks lowest on the scale of sexual prowess.He is not romantic except as the chase itself is romantic.Sex is something to be done as quickly and efficiently as possible.When Virgo says he loves you and behaves in a jealous manner, do not be flattered.This usually simply means that you are serving some useful role for them and are considered a piece of their property.Anyone who tries to lure you away is depriving Virgo of an useful tool -no more.For both male and female Virgos,true love is not involved; they are never tender or sympathetic unless there is something they cannot get without showing affection.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:48 AM  

  • If you're looking for a man that no other woman will ever want to steal,you've finally found him.Ever wondered what goes on in the mind of a serial killer? Find out what Interpol has been trying to discover for years and date a Virgo.If you are currently in love with a Virgo and you don't want to believe the truth,pick up any detective novel that features an ice-pick-wielding nutter and then try telling us he doesn't remind you of someone you know and it's all just a bunch of coincidences.If he looks vaguely familiar, that's because he is.You probably saw an artist's sketchy impression on Crimewatch the night before and faintly remember words like 'bludgeoned','manhunt'and 'Virgo'.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 4:55 AM  

  • Sabrina & Salina are twin hoe Virgo sisters. Best place for them is a brothel. Cuz they are back door hoes anyways. They put on a mask to be pure but inside they are filthy nasty dirty ugly hoes. They get banged more than you can ever imagine. Their secret wish is - sigh if I were a fire sign..lol.

    By Anonymous Sabrina&Salina's pimp daddy, at 12:23 PM  

  • VIRGO----(AUG 24-SEPT 23)

    WITH the psyche of a serial killer, Virgo is to be avoided at all
    costs.Scarred by an unhappy childhood (caused by his own weirdness) he's a psycho loner,a perfectionist and a shit-picker ooopss sorry nit-picker.His obsession with ur hygiene boarders on the pathological level.

    If this wasn't bad enough, he's so tight that he'd steal the coins from a blind beggar's hat.
    HOW to spot one?--LOOK look for the cool, calm, collected one staring disconcertingly at you from across the room.

    HOW to attract one?--MENTION your inheritance while seductively running your finger on the bar,commenting on the disgraceful amount of dust.

    The first date?--THE cheapest place possible.

    WHEN to bed him?----DON'T.The Virgo is to sex what mad cow disease is to beef burger.

    WHEN to pop the question?--WHAT question? "How come I'm paying for dinner again?"

    IF he dumps you?---(THEN THANK TO GOD AND MOVE ON)HE'LL never get round to it. If he does it's probably because you haven't cleaned the bathroom properly.

    IF you dump him?---JUST when you think you are rid of him he'll appear but don't think
    he'd hiding flowers behind his back ...think of ice pick.

    By Anonymous Virgo truth, at 5:40 AM  

  • Virgos are sadly not very nice people at all. They know it too cuz they're so analytical. They're waaay too cold and manipulative and yes they seem sociopathic as well. As you can see they usually do not accept criticism lightly they instead go into a rant trying to hurt you as much as possible. Yet they expect you to take they're criticism with a big smile and a "thank you". Hypocritical and a complete drain on your life. Run from them. They following article shows the results of they're inability to stop being mean and nagging to others especially they're lover/spouses.


    http://ezinearticles.com/?Virgo-and-Unnatural-Death---Risks-and-Reasons&id=4107956

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:03 AM  

  • Country ass white people....

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 1:32 AM  

  • Yeah, I'm a Virgo and it's true I dislike my qualities sometimes, I'd still rather be a Virgo than any other sign. I can get along with anyone despite what their birthday is, it just depends on the person. However there are a few self-centered Leos as well as lunatic Libras out there and their thought process is so chaotic and full of shit.

    By Anonymous Thisisme, at 2:32 AM  

  • Dude Virgos suck as& for real. some examples Gabriel Aubrey beating up women, Katherine Heigle is a bit(h, Charlie Sheen is abusive and crazy, Hugh Grant and the prostitute, Mark Foley and the list goes on and on. And because they can't let go and show real emotions many of the Virgo actors can't act for example Evan Rachel Wood, Keanu Reeves, and Paul Walker. It's sad because they really think they're awesome and they really aren't. You Virgos need to chill out.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 3:40 PM  

  • Virgos are the best in sex!....

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 7:18 AM  

  • Wow is sad everything ke written, I have always thought that the Americans is one of the countries more discriminative and with more prejudices, by something that country is not the best in the world

    Im virgo

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 10:35 AM  

  • I'm a Virgo and I'm exactly like the definition, but who cares! yes I'm shy, yes I'm doubt myself, but not self centered, never have been, care too much for other people and not myself, been that way for ever, you read some places that one sign goes with another then you read the exact difference, nothing is exact so be with who you want and be who you want period.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 1:55 AM  

  • i hate my self bcoz being virgo its fuckin hard to find a partner,,...
    i hate bitches...:(
    but cant find nice women........:(

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 10:02 AM  

  • I was seeing a virgo bloke but not 4 long . I am a sagittarius we got on very well but 1 nite in the pub i was chating 2 his friend who i had met 4 the 1st time. im a very friendly person but he got a bit mad saying i was flirting which i know i wasnt. We now arnt together i still really miss him and txt him 2 tell him this but he dont reply. Have i pushed him away ? Does it annoy virgo men when we keep bugging them telling them we miss them? How could i win him back? Im sure it's more to it than he is saying.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 5:12 PM  

  • im a Taurus and I hate being a Taurus because it sound s like virgo lol

    By Anonymous anonmyous, at 3:46 PM  

  • Well they're not that bad! I'm a libra and my mom is a Virgo sometimes she gives me a headache and puts me down and thinks she knows everything about my career but then it's only because it reflects on her own frustrations because she never did anything with her life so I just learn to ignore it. She had a lot of great traits too. She was protective strong and although shrewd she's taught me to build my own emotional security and not depend on anyone else for it. And it's kept me from never critiquing anyone in a negative way again because I don't really like it either. You just have to learn from opposing people you meet and learn from it. She has a lot of good stuff too. She's very down to earth and funny too. I think that when people perceive one sign as unbearable they assume all of them are and usually when a sign is annoying its because of their whole natal chart. They may have a lot of conflicting elements that don't correspond well in their chart and people dont know that. Like maybe a fire element Clashing with and incompatible earth element in their house of love and sex. Like my mom has a moon in Scorpio so there's a lot misunderstanding within herself because her emotions don't mesh well with her earthy soulful aspirations. My whole natal chart is a mixture of Libra and Capricorn so I think having a lot of earth influences allows me to see it in her perspective even if I don't want to approach life the way she does but i Do unconditionally love her. I know some people view libra as flaky and if they have a lot of earth or water libra could seem like a demon. But you know try to be understanding and get a whole reading of their natal chart to see where each of your conflicts lie because it isn't the whole sun sign Virgo it's the individual person.

    By Blogger Silvia Angulo, at 6:58 PM  

  • The fact that you can see a virgo is insecure and needs love but afraid of it is what attracts me to them. I'm a cancer woman and madly in love with a virgo man. Whether he feels the same way, I don't know but it's on it's way there. Virgos just need love. Someone who loves them and can help them love themselves. Virgos really aren't bad, they're just so busy trying to make everyone else happy, they forget themselves. They're very misunderstood.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:26 AM  

  • This Virgo man just popped back into my life, and I was trying to decide if I should pursue him, because he is so difficult to understand. He barely says anything but yes or no, and he says things that just confuse my Scorpio, and it hurts to deal with him. There is a part of me who wonders if he's worth it, or if I'll just be chasing a razor blade. If it were just the shyness fine, but that's a lot of work to do(to break through to him)so is he worth it.....?

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 11:52 PM  

  • I am an Aries and I have a great Virgo guy though sometimes he gets angry over little things. I have a great sense of humour and this has really helped my Virgo guy and we get along fine. I always enjoy the attention I get from him and the constant nagging to look good means I always am out shopping lol

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 11:19 AM  

  • Im a Cancer, and i think Virgos are silly. , in a cute , funny way. :) They make me laugh. I think Virgos are sexy ;) that is all

    By Blogger Tanya Culic, at 2:32 AM  

  • Mostly being smart and independent being the ones most likely to survive in this horrifying world

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 8:23 PM  

  • FUCK OFF YOU FUCKIN VIRGO HATERS IM A VIRGO AND LOVE IT YOU DONT LIKE ME SO WHAT BLOW IT OUT YOUR ASS U UNGREATFUL BITCHES IF YOU AINT A VIRGO YOU AINT SHIT SO FUCK OFF AND BE A LO LIFE DEAD END

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 3:30 PM  

  • I'm also a sag, and your reply is a perfect example how we are unjudgemental and always fighting for the underdog. #sagnation.
    I have to be honest though. I have never met a Virgo I could get along with. too many insecure mind games. they are over critical and controlling and that doesn't mesh with my Sagittarius free spirit. keep representing sanctuary.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 1:10 AM  

  • To over come these negative traits all you have to do is love yourself stop searching for happiness b/c it's sitting right next you. Live the moment just flow with it don't think just be

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 8:24 PM  

  • I LOVE Virgos.

    They have emotions, they just express it differently.
    They are not ostentatious with their emotions/feelings. Like other signs (dramatic Leo or Water Signs) Some Virgos are detached, some just hide it until they're alone or just suppress them. I've seen this in capricorns and some taurus.

    The thing with Earth signs, they never really express their true feelings or secrets to many people. They will open up to SOMEONE THEY TRUST. Which is a very smart thing to do.

    They are talented in something, and exceptional academically. They are their worst critics sometimes..

    -water sun/fire moon

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:12 PM  

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    By Blogger cheryl nesseth, at 3:45 AM  

  • @anoymous leo- f*** you Leo. You don't trump this sagi..I'll run your ass down and shoot you with my arrow. King of the jungle. Ha!! Every Leo I've come across don't have shit once I show up at the scene..and try your ego attitude on a Sagi..we'll put your ass in your place.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 3:56 AM  

  • Virgos are cool..Some have serious issues though. I wish they would just let things just be sometimes and not try to analyze everything so much. They'd be much happier if they can tell their minds to shut up.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 4:01 AM  

  • Im a leo female I broke up with my ex virgo 3 times, returning within a few days. He is ignoring me atm says "im done you ran 3 times" ...I left mostly because his secretive nature scared me..im letting it go I don't know what else to do

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 3:03 AM  

  • Hey Im a Leo and ill tell ya at the end of the day. If you ran 3 times ITS CUZ THERE WAS A REASON. Dont go back they will never forgive you for running and will always hold it over you. This will crush your healthy ego and diminish your Sun fire hun. Not a healthy choice

    Oh and Sag up there talkin shit... YOU DONT EXIST, you and yer arrow are mythical fantasy. no one likes yer attitude, leave that to us and Aries yer a loud mouth with nothing to say. Stop embarrassing yourself and go hitchhike to far off places like Kerouac or some shit...giddyup lil ponyboy!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 10:34 AM  

  • My mom is a Virgo and has a hard time keeping friends because she curses them all out. My ex bf is a Virgo and O H MY GOSH! Talk about arguing! This man can argue for MONTHS! And I'm a libra soo...yea I hate Virgos

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 6:10 AM  

  • I'd just like to put my little insight on this, my best friend is a libra, and ima virgo. We happen to get a long fairly well, because he knows I'm always there for him. We actually spend time enjoying music and laughing about the general public. He has a good approach to life and we help encourage each other cause that's what it's really all about. So please don't generalize people.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:46 AM  

  • I'm a second decan Virgo born September 6th. There are many variations that Virgos possess on an individual scale that include upbringing, personal interaction, etc. (Just like everybody else). That being said as a Virgo I am very aware of my surroundings as well as people and their own social interactions. I try to help with any situation as long as I can neglect myself due to the fact that I fear that I am a lost cause at times and need to help as much as possible to reassure to myself that I am indeed useful. I am an actor in my own right that I am able to read people and am able to socialize in a way that will cause no tension, but at the same time reveal nothing about myself, because I feel that my own history is rather unimportant in regard to the conversation so that I don't act like a narcissist. I have been betrayed by many friends in the past so I am very cautious around people and expect the worst of people at all times while trying to grasp on a small patch of hope that someone may one day be loyal as a friend or more. I have a hard time opening up to people due to past experiences so I invest my time and slowly open up once I begin to feel more secure. I have one libra sister, 2 Scorpio sister's, 1 aries mother, and had 1 taurus father. Through their help I have become more easygoing and more attuned with other people's capabilities so that I don't hold it against them, but relationships are still finicky since each person I have met so far has been wanting to jump from one partner to the next so I have decided to continue to sift and wait until I can find someone more compatible. I hate being a virgo at times due to my self-criticism reaching traumatic heights, but I refuse to let others see that side of me so that I can retain balance in my life so people won't flee from an internal battle. I try to argue as little as possible because making a point and beating a dead horse over such small things do not seem worth it to me therefore I question the reason why an argument should be made over something that will only end in emotional abuse. I tend to push relationships away, because I want to truly love someone, but I see so many people jumping around that loyalty appears to be disintegrating into thin air and I don't want anything short term. Sometimes I wish I were more naive so that my Virgo side wouldn't feel so untrusting.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 3:33 AM  

  • Hello! I'm a Pisces woman crazy about a Virgo woman. Let me say this...we need you Virgos and so does the world. Don't be so hard on yourselves. That brilliant mind of yours doesn't get a day of rest. You're always calculating your next move. I personally adore you and all your perfectionist tendencies. You are such givers and would do anything in your power to keep those you love safe and happy. You need to realize that people love you just the way you are. The things you do for others are often times kept secret because you're not boastful. You're crazy smart and highly intelligent. Not knocking you for not trusting, you just need the right people in your life to show you that it's ok. Love and blessings to my beautiful Virgo kings and queens! PS if you want loyalty, Pisces will love you to the moon and beyond! Muah!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 1:13 AM  

  • I fell for a Virgo, he was the one that chased me, and then got cold feet... Then came back again, promised you the world then silent treatment. We are sole mates but I'm an Aquarius, very similar to a Virgo trait. We have an amazing connection, and he could have been my best friend but he's a flake. I will always care for him, but seriously hope he deletes my number and never contact me again.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 3:05 PM  

  • Hi, I'm a virgo. All the backstabbing going on here is crap, is it nessesary to verbally/write ourselves off. We all have similar traits. Whomever who mentioned that Virgos shag arround and that are tarts. I have never doubledealed on a boyfriend, Ive been treated badly by many boyfriends, it hurts but have moved on. I think one of the issues is that we are not happy in our own skins and we rely on thers to make us happy. I did that and was very lonely. Now I am very happy, run my own business and have worked hard to get where I am now and the majority of that was my own hard work.

    Csan we all get off this backstabbing bandwagon please. I have had friends and lovers of different star signs and even though they may have treated me bad in the past I'm passed all this shit! M0ve on guys/ladies ;) x

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 6:19 PM  

  • You don't deserve shit. Capricorns are not as compatible. Not saying Virgos are great. You'd rather have a dry, boring, bossy, unlucky person instead of someone possessive? It's true what they say about piscean females being horrible in relationships.
    - Pisces male

    By Blogger dorianjp13, at 7:40 AM  

  • Follow your intuition.

    By Blogger dorianjp13, at 7:44 AM  

  • Don't flirt. Sag and virgo are also very different.

    By Blogger dorianjp13, at 7:53 AM  

  • Sag is better than any fire sign. I don't like the other ones.

    By Blogger dorianjp13, at 7:56 AM  

  • Leo and Aries are the worst sings worse than Virgo. Conceded, obnoxious. Fucking stupid. Always starting problems. Simpletons. Disrespectful. Good for nothing other than being loud. Funny that you call sag loud mouth. There's no way someone can embarrass themselves in front of the shitty fire signs.

    By Blogger dorianjp13, at 8:10 AM  

  • There's a lot of shitty Virgos but Aries is still the worst sign. Leo is pretty bad too.

    By Blogger dorianjp13, at 8:13 AM  

  • Hi I'm a virgo. i wrote a comment a few nights ago, I'm the one who runs my own business. I love being a virgo, wouldn't want it any other way :)

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 5:17 PM  

  • Yes good as friends not lovers though, there is a difference.I'm not a libra by the way I'm a Cancer I had a relationship with virgo. I wished we had taken the friend path maybe things would have been better than they were. He was closed in silence, meaning I did all the communicating and even then I barely knew anything about the guy. Expect for the horrible stuff his lying cheating and stealing.

    By Blogger Unknown, at 6:30 PM  

  • But at the same time though the only reason I would even care to like virgo is because if it holds true that they really don't care and can be cold and heartless. It I had that trait it could have saved me a lot of trouble.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 6:36 PM  

  • Yes good as friends not lovers though, there is a difference.I'm not a libra by the way I'm a Cancer I had a relationship with virgo. I wished we had taken the friend path maybe things would have been better than they were. He was closed in silence, meaning I did all the communicating and even then I barely knew anything about the guy. Expect for the horrible stuff his lying cheating and stealing.

    By Blogger Alex Allen, at 10:06 AM  

  • I think that its sad that this post was to vent and help other virgos. And all i see are hateful people making us hate our sign even more. I try to work on myself so much but there is also only so much i can change about myself. Not all virgos are the same btw and all this showed me was character in alot of you. So sad. Who likes to kick someone when there down? I dont do that to people..

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 3:41 PM  

  • I hate being a virgo. I wish i were a laid off person just like Aquarius.

    By Blogger amanda simatupang, at 1:45 AM  

  • Really so proud to manipulate people. That's cold and I bet u accuse people of manipulative. When its u the entire time. Leos deserve better than u guys

    By Blogger Unknown, at 1:10 AM  

  • Leo gal. Was in a relationship for over 2yrs with a Virgo male. In the beginning was great. A few misunderstandings and yes,he would vanish. Then I got sick. Was sick for months. That put a hardship things. I had no energy always sick and just wanted to get well. He didn't understand it. He was supportive in the beginning but it wore thin. So many disagreements from communication in text. Then Vanishing on his part. Which led to animosity for it was signals of being cheated on again. Past relationship. I had past issues I should have dealt with first. But we got together,shortly after the last guy was out of the picture. Only he never left,once he found out I had moved on he constantly texted me and that kept the negative thinking and emotions active within me. Then the ex came home over the holidays and I couldn't say no. I stopped it Tho. Told the ex how I felt about the Virgo. And told the Virgo. And the already on off relationship got worse. It's now been five hell weeks without the Virgo replying to any of the messages I have left.. I love him miss him and wish he would just talk things out. The ignore times only made things ugly. With my negative thoughts and his MIA trips. It was doomed from the get go. My Virgo helped me through alot of emotional bs tho. I got more to do. And the ex. Still has yet to stop contacting me. No I wont go to him he still lies and says no it's not true but it Is. The poor gal be got now. But,for the Virgo if given a chance again I would do anything to start over and back to when we first did only this time I won't get sickly. My ex can't reach me, and u can't ignore instead of discussing when we disagree. I love u

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:08 PM  

  • I am cancer female and I'm with a Virgo male . We should be a hit right ! I have all the emotion equality he needs and he has the stable practical stuff I need my life . But He keeps letting me down too! and I have been nothing but loyal and trying to get us to be on the same page. I'm out of his ledge so at first he thought I was perfect. Which is great for the cancer ego because we feel wow you picked us out of everyone ?! :o and its great with virgos in the begging , magical feeling . But now my virgo keeps letting me down . What am I not worth it anymore , cuz trust me and my intuition know he knows I'm the shit , and he would be dumb to break up with me . (A:cuz he told me that) but he just might because like me being a cancer you can't tell us to do shit ..expect we have a heart .. #help someone needs to help these helping signs cuz they can't help themselves and none wants to baby them not even a motherly cancer :(

    By Blogger anonymous, at 11:12 AM  

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    By Blogger Amanda, at 7:34 PM  

  • I'm also a Sag and I'm married to a VIRGO. It's almost like oil and water. I try so hard to accept him the way he is. I understand him better than he understands himself, yet he is so judgmental of me and controlling of me it's becoming nearly impossible. He plays petty mind games and is always the victim.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 9:03 PM  

  • I love being a Virgo..and I wouldn't want to be any other sign.. and to the ones who don't like Us.. your just mad because you can't be better than Us..Because we are the best..Rich or Poor..Or Ugly or Not..We are the Best..Gods from Heaven!!! Not Libras..Aries..or Leo's..But Virgo!!! We are the first sign..and it has been that way since the Beginning of Time..and will always be that way.. So do What you do Best..and Hate..and Lie to yourself..Because we Love Watching you act Stupid As Fuck!!! Thanks!!xoxoxo We don't wanna be fire..y'all wanna be Earth!!! Nothing is more Beautiful than. Earth and Water!!! Go hang yourself!!! Your Nothing!!!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 2:25 AM  

  • All you dumb ass Libras on here..need to shut up about Virgos..Scared to be Alone..Virgos don't care about being alone if it makes Us Happy..Dumb ass Libras walking round Blind as Fuck..Shut up and Wake Up!!! Virgos number 1..Not no dumb add Libras and even Dumber..Stupid ass Leo's..Go back to Hell where you came from...Demonic idiots!!!!

    By Blogger anonymous, at 2:36 AM  

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